Beat the Fear
I remember an amusing joke the comedian Jerry Seinfeld would often use in his standup act. Paraphrasing it, the joke went something like this: According to a poll on the things people fear most, the number one fear was giving a speech in front of other people. The second greatest fear was death. That meant that if people were going to a funeral, they’d rather be the person in the casket than the person who has to give the eulogy.
Public speaking is not any easy thing to put yourself through. Most people don’t like to be up in front of a crowd where any little mistake is going to make them look foolish in front of all of those people. But what can you really do about it?
There are certain things you can do to help beat your fear and help you give a better speech. The first is simply acknowledging that you are afraid of it. It sounds simple and it sounds like it wouldn’t do anything, but you’d be surprised how much of a difference it can make to admit to yourself that you’re afraid.
The next thing is simply respecting yourself. Take the things you know and understand how important they are and how much it will help everyone else for you to tell it to them. This should help you boost up your confidence.
Next, and this is something a lot of people don’t think about, design and make all of your own visuals. If you planned on using leaflet printing to hand out some leaflets, make them and print them yourself. If you wanted some flyers to give to people, or maybe you had a color poster you were planning to use as a prop, make it yourself.
You can get design programs like Adobe Photo Shop in order to do the work, and if you’re handling all of that color printing on your own it gives you a level of control you wouldn’t normally have. This can help make a big difference mentally when it comes time to get up there in front of everyone else.
You might also want to go to the place you’re going to give your speech at ahead of time to get a feel for the place you’ll be speaking in. The fewer surprises you have the better.
Also, keep your presentation simple. The more complicated things get the more chances there are for things to go wrong. Keeping things simply allows you to have a greater control over what’s going on.
Lastly, do your best to be yourself. The more casual you feel and the more casual you appear the more knowledgeable you’ll seem. If you look nervous people aren’t going to be as likely to take you serious.
It can be a nerve wracking experience, I know, but if you handle things right, you’ll survive the experience.